YSaturday, March 31, 2007
the "out" tray
i feel bad leaving Mr Nice Guy wondering on his blog, "is being nice enough?" and he ranted " kinda feel that gals in SG are typically looking for the whole package. Good looks / physique is one thing, having a good career is another, having a car is definitely a bonus. Being nice is the icing on the cake. I have seen my gal-frens falling for bad boys, only to have the bad boys cheating and bullying and abusing them and the girls just can't get enough of them. *rolls eyes*"
well.... i guess he's really sore but honestly speaking, i have to say being nice isnt enough. also, he got it wrong. it is in my opinion that good looks and physique isnt a must, neither is a good career or a car. i just want to see a lil more personality other than "nice-ness".
sometimes, nice is plain and forgettable.
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my "in" tray
last night i had my first date with J at marina. i was late by half an hour cos my mean manager gave me work (on a blardy saturday mind you) and wanted it in on saturday itself.
luckily, J didnt make a fuss about it. we caught Bean. and our seats were the ones without arm rests between us. it was him who bought the tickets so when we found our seats, i gave him that -__- look. but it wasnt intentional. it just happened that these were the last row, center-most seats. the movie was alrite, nothing much to "wow" about though. but we later had dinner at swensons, with loads of fun and laughter. since the first day i met him, ive found the old chirpy cheeky side of myself, which has gone missing for pretty long.
yup. looking again at Mr Nice Guy's description about girls who go for the whole good looks, car and career package thingi, well, i guess it doesnt apply to me. J is sporty but he isnt very tall nor does he has model looks. he's the boy-next door kind (but i kinda dig his ear stud. haha.). and i dont give a damn about car because mrt rides can be exciting too, especially missing trains or dashing into them the last minute. and for career, J's gonna be a double degree student at smu for the next 4 yrs or so. definitely not a career that reaps in money. haha.
yup. it is partly because of him that i'm pretty determined to go to SMU. but... i'll leave it all up to heaven to decide. got a rejection call from NTU. alrite not quite a rejection but indirectly it is. a few days ago some prof called me asked me go for an interview for the psych course interview. that's my 4th choice. so you know what it meant right? i failed to qualify for the business, accounting and econs courses at NTU. arghz.
cai was here with you at